"This book is about desire. The kind that drives you crazy."
"Women were the doorway, not the destination."
This is the story of what it took to learn the difference — the heartbreak, the hunger, the fumbling, the breakthroughs. All of it. Everything in this book happened.
I didn't become whole by conquering desire. I became whole by learning how to feel — without fleeing, performing, or numbing.
My whole body felt rearranged, like something ancient had cracked open.
"I felt seen in a way no self-help book has ever managed."
"This is the book I needed at 28. I'm giving it to every man I know."
"Honest in a way that costs something. You can feel it on every page."